Today I was speaking with a client that has a fear of flying. During the conversation I mentioned the fight or flight response. The client wasn’t really aware of what this natural reaction is. Immediately after finishing the session I went on to give some breastfeeding support to a new mum. I found myself talking about the fight or flight response again. Two very different situations but the exact same conversation. It seems that the fight or flight response is so relevant for many of my clients regardless of the presenting issue.
So what is the fight or flight response?
When we consciously or unconsciously sense a threat the hypothalamus in the brain activates the sympathetic nervous system, which causes the body to speed up, tense up and become very alert. While the adrenal-cortical system activates the release of around 30 different hormones that get the body prepared to deal with a threat. All of these physical responses are intended to help you survive a dangerous situation by preparing you to either run or fight for your life.
This is the primal brain at work, the “oldest” part of our brain and the part that we share with animals. This part of the brain keeps us safe, at least it thinks it is keeping us safe. The thing is, it doesn’t understand we have things today that keeps us safe from harm, the police that patrol our streets and generally ensure we don’t have to fight or flee for our lives, the processes we have in place to keep ourselves alive such as earning money and buying what we need plus modern technology. This part of the brain still behaves as instinctually as that of wild animals. When babies are laid down away from their mother they will scream to alert the mother; as they unconsciously sense the danger. A person with any fear or phobia will (often irrationally) consciously sense danger which will in turn activate this state of high alert preparing the body to react to the dangerous situation.
The combination of our lives today and the primal brain can leave some people in a permanent state of fight or flight. This can be hugely unpleasant, especially if the reasons for it are not understood or recognised.
Hypnosis can be effectively used to manage the flight or flight response, turning it off, enabling a more relaxed life. Managing the fight or flight response is often the answer to many fears/phobias, anxiety, stress, sleep disorders and pain during birth, amongst others. Understanding the fight or flight response is the first step, starting to take control of it using hypnosis is a great second step.